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Stephanie has seen a difference in the way she's been treated socially when she's had a significant other: I am not sure why inviting a single person is perceived as throwing off the party.

And at times when I have been in a relationship, it is amazing how much more I was included in social events.

Helaine, who has kids, felt the shift after her divorce, "What I don't understand is how before we all had plans as a family, but now no. Since you're not friends with my ex, why did you stop inviting us over or accepting requests for family plans?

Why can't a married family still make plans with a divorced family? Ellie yearns for inclusion: Girlfriends, know that I rely on your friendships Time and again, single women describe the added importance of their female friendships in their lives.

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Nicole agrees, "Just because I am not seeing someone gut not mean I am desperate and will date just anyone. If I was not attracted to a type of guy before, what makes you think that will suddenly change just because I'm over 40?

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Please believe me when I say it: I am okay Women who are single in midlife want the rest of us to know that, despite life's normal ups and downs, they are doing just fine.

In Marie 's words: As a single older woman, I want acceptance, not suspicion or assumptions. I am not damaged goods. I am not sad. I am not a reject. That smile you see on my face is genuine. Sue agrees, "Some people think you never married because you were selfish or too focused on your career or too picky.

Did they ever think it just wasn't meant to be your life and there is nothing wrong with being single? Cari, divorced mother of a 7-year-old, appreciates her newfound independence: I get to decide how the money is managed, what bills get paid off first, what school or summer camp is appropriate for my child.

There are no differences of opinion, no debates, and no accommodations to be made.

My single life is very productive and busy. I'll admit, there are times it would be nice to have a second set of hands around the house or around me, and someday I may meet someone who I want to spend my life with, but for now I am enjoying my decision-making freedom immensely.

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